One thing you can count on during the holidays is the obligatory office party. Some people look forward to the chance to mix and mingle outside the confines of business and others would rather give up the annual bonus than have to spend precious personal time with the gang from work.
No matter which side of the issue you fall on, there are certain rules of behavior to follow at the office party if you want to have an office to go to when the party is over. Make sure you know the answers to a few key questions.
Do I have to go?
Don’t even consider NOT going unless you have a justifiable conflict. If this is not your idea of a great time, then just consider it part of the job, put on your best attitude and go.
How long should I stay?
Resist the urge to make a cameo appearance. You need to stay for at least an hour and speak to as many people as possible. And know when to go home. You don’t want to be thought of as part of the clean-up crew unless that is the next job you want to have.
What should I wear?
Remember that this is the office party, and be smart when deciding how to dress. Make sure that what you wear reflects well on you professionally. This is not the time to show up in your most revealing outfit.
Is my family invited?
Not unless it says so on the invitation. If the invitation reads “and family,” take the kids. Otherwise leave them home with the babysitter.
What will I talk about?
It’s not what you have to say; it’s about what other people have to say. If you plan ahead with some good open-ended questions, you won’t have any trouble with conversations.
How much should I eat and drink?
Whether the event is a reception with light hors d’oeuvres or a full buffet, keep moderation in mind. You are not there for the food so resist the urge to load your plate.
Drink with caution. Since alcohol and business rarely mix well, limit how much you consume. Your after-hours conduct can have a direct bearing on your professional future.
Is it all right to dance on the table with a lampshade on my head?
Not at the office party, no matter how well the shade fits or what a great little dancer you are. Enjoy yourself, but keep in mind this is still about business and make sure that you don’t have TOO much fun.
Author Resource:-
Lydia Ramsey is a business etiquette expert, professional speaker, corporate trainer and author featured in the Wall Street Journal and many other off-line and on-line publications. Lydia shares her business etiquette tips in her monthly e-zine, her blog and on Twitter. To register for these free services visitManners That Sell today!
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